My Town: San Antonio, TX
Designer Kathryn Bentley on Her Hometown’s Best-Kept Secrets
"I never really had a Texan accent," says San Antonio-native Kathryn Bentley. "I may have growing up, but I never identified myself as being a Texan." The 28-year-old New York-based jewelry designer is, herself, a second generation Texan. Over tea in New York's Soho, near her lower Fifth Avenue apartment, Bentley recalls memories from her childhood in San Antonio, and ruminates on the best-kept secrets of her Texan hometown. Around her neck she wears a small glass compass that she designed – it's filled with tiny gold flakes and hangs on a chain found at a flea market. However dazzling her designs, they are more about adornment and the ritual of wearing protective natural elements than anything else – an aspect that, oddly enough, ties back to her Texan roots.
Last April Bentley went home for the San Antonio version of a ‘coming out,’ called the Coronation. "The girls do this walk and wear $50,000 dresses. There are parties throughout the month of April. It 's very old Texas. My parents are involved in the whole socialite aspect of Texas. My sister did the debutante thing. I was totally anti. I rebelled against what I was supposed to do," she says, adding, "In Waco, they have the white trash version called the Cotton Palace."
Coronations aren’t the only old-school Texan tradition Bentley failed to take up (though she did learn how to shoot a 22 shot gun at the age of ten). Instead, she rooted herself in the city’s Mexican traditions and thriving art scene. Bentley's father is an architect, thus her childhood is best described as living amongst Mies van der Rohe furniture in a contemporary house across the street from the Marion Kooglar McNay Art Museum. "I was exposed to good taste,” she says. “My parents are really involved in the art scene in San Antonio, despite their conservative slant. So there was always an edge."
When home, she scours the local Botanicas for “herbs, dried flowers and Catholic figurines,” as well as the antique malls, which include The Antique Sampler Mall and The Alamo Antique Mall. “They are amazing for old records and vintage jewelry.” This practice of hunting for amulets, figurines and treasures isn’t anything new; in fact it’s something Bentley did as a teenager to find objects to adorn the giant shrine she created in her bedroom. "A lot of people have shrines in their home because of the whole Mexican influence. It was something I was attracted to. I love the ritual aspect."
Other San Antonio staples, according to Bentley, include Splashtown, “I like to think of Texas as the home to water parks,” the Buckhorn Saloon and Museum, "this place has some amazing taxidermy," and Sloan Hall, which Bentley describes as one of her favorite stores. “I worked there and they now carry my jewelry line.” She also swears by Rio Rio Cantina , a restaurant on the San Antonio River, where you can watch the monthly riverside fiestas, and Paloma Blanca - "proper Tex Mex... so fresh. I love a chalupa and a chat." And, for "very old-school, family style Mexican food" and "the best salsa and margaritas," she recommends Mi Tierra Café y Panaderia.
Bentley also talks about San Antonio places that resonate with her, including the teepee she had in her back yard where she shot her grandfather’s handmade bow-and-arrows, and the McNay. "It was a haven for me! I used to spend hours reading and sketching at the McNay," Bentley recalls. "I lived across the street so I was there almost daily in high school. We used to sneak into it at and wade in the fountains during the summer." During her teenage years she'd frequent the bar and music venue Tacoland, where Nirvana once played. "Unfortunately, the guy who ran it was shot a few years ago,” she says. Hitting a lighter note, she lets it slip that her favorite taco spot is Las Palopas. "I love a cheap taco. After a crazy night out it was always Las Palopas. The cheaper the taco the better," she reminisces. Spoken a true Texan.
~Sara Costello
Go There:
Alamo Antique Mall, 125 Broadway Street, (210) 224-4354

Tucked away in Tribeca lies what many trend-following foodies have recently been touting ‘the next hot thing’ - the tiny one-room bar and eatery, Smith and Mills. Having celebrated its 30-day anniversary just last night, the less-shabby-more-chic outpost boasts a pedigree packed with enough NYC restaurant royalty to leave expectant gourmands foaming at the mouth. Yet, from the lack of signage outside and the intentionally quiet launch, one gets the sense that co-owners Matt Abramcyk and Akiva Elstein, who together also hold stock in Employees Only and Beatrice Inn, would prefer to keep the spot a secret.
What are your first impressions?
How do you like the décor, the music [Louis Armstrong is playing]…
Typical Tribeca?
Would you come here on your own?
Before leaving, you have to take a trip to the restroom. It’s actually an old freight elevator and is supposed to be exquisite…
Earlier this month in London, reigning queens and kings of style – including Mischa Barton and Burberry’s Christopher Bailey - joined forces at the Visa Swap Shop - a partnered event with clothes recycling charity TRAID [Textile Recycling for Aid and International Development]. There, they swapped their Chanel for Balenciaga, and their Miu Miu for Marc, all for a good cause… and, all for free.
From Miuccia’s silk turban, to Pete’s perpetually photographed Trilby, the hat is making a comeback. And what perfect timing -- in the heat of summer, the right chapeau can offer instant SPF, and add a taste of aristocratic style.


We’re not quite sure if it’s the grass-green patent leather, paisley-print lining, or the waterproof appeal of this extra-wide headband, but we were sold the very first time we spotted it at Barneys. Also available in the equally covetable, summer-appropriate shade of cobalt blue, the headpiece is one of the latest from Ouellette, whose creations have graced a slew of celebs’ locks, including those of Jessica Simpson and Julia Roberts.
Not only does this lightweight hat blend two of the most timeless styles ever constructed (the Fedora, big with Prohibition-era mafia and private detectives; and the Panama, which dates back to President Harry Truman); it’ll look perfectly acceptable whether you’re strolling on the beach, or enjoying a burger at the Corner Bistro. Not to mention, Bates, -- the British, family-run business responsible for this particular style -- has been outfitting the heads of stylish gentlemen since the turn of the century. Note: if you’re fortunate enough to stop by the actual Jermyn Street outpost, pay your respects to Binks (the shop’s famous, glass-encased, stuffed cat who’s greeted customers since the ‘20s).
27-year-old Saam Farahmand has been gaining plaudits left, right and center for the past year thanks to the otherworldly, dark and sometimes erotic videos he’s directed for his close friends Klaxons. Some may also know him for the now-notorious lesbian romp video for Simian Mobile Disco's 'Hustler,' or perhaps the Homer Simpson-dream-like world he had New Young Pony Club perform in for 'Ice Cream.' But, what many people don’t know about Saam -- a director also known for his work with the Rapture and Soulwax (for whom he’s currently making a documentary) -- is that he made a fake ad for Calvin Klein back in 1987, is addicted to making pastiches of the rich and famous which may have gotten him in trouble with a certain mainstream music-video channel, and he’d love to make a film about Tom Cruise.
Your sense of humor and love of the unreal is obvious throughout your work. Does this stem from your childhood?
The capital city of Massachusetts has never been known for its nightlife. That is, unless you count beer pong at the Sigma Phi Frat House, or bar crawls on Newbury Street. But, over the past few months, a certain red-haired DJ/producer with a penchant for throwing sweaty dance parties has been changing all that.
How would you describe Boston to someone who’s never been…
Tell me about the parties you’ve thrown with Hearthrob?
The music started with really standard party jams on the hiphop/disco/house end with as much electro as we could sneak in. Now we play almost all electro and house and we sneak in the party favorites. Basically we had to get the crowd to trust us, and once that happened, we could give them things they'd never heard and they'd be open to dance to it. So right now it’s a lot of our own edits, a lot of Switch/Sinden/Dubsided shit, some Baltimore club, some big room English/Swedish mafia electro-house that I guiltily can't get enough of, some house classics, a lot of French touch, and the occasional crunk bangers. The party is at
but they’re good people; I always stop by and read a magazine on the green couch, usually with an iced yerba mate from
double Desert Eagles shooting the place up. But for me it's food that matters, so that's why
The verdict is in: this season it’s all about the high-waist. Consult any fashion pub – be it print or Web – and the evidence is clear. ‘70s fashion is in; thong-baring waistlines might as well be dead and buried (and, in our opinion, hopefully never to be resurrected again). But, while rib-grazing waistlines have graced the gams of countless fashion icons in the past (Jane Birkin being one of the most notable), we’re not so sure the look flatters every figure.
compatibility. While our gut instinct made us want to climb the Empire State Building and cry, ‘We found it! The perfect jean!’ we knew not every woman would be convinced. So, we enlisted the help of our favorite fashionable femmes,
On the high-waisted shorts in black ($168)…
On the Corseted Skinny Leg Jean in Magnolia ($196)…
work. Maybe if I was 20 I would. They’re just not right for my lifestyle.
A quick scan of NYC-real-estate-related headlines this week is enough to make any financially-challenged, apartment-seeking individual consider a relocation (and we’re talking Louisiana, not Long Island City). Just a few days ago it was announced that both the Chelsea Hotel and Cobble Hill will likely be the next victims of the current plague consuming NYC – aka: over-priced condominiums leaving prospective renters in the dark.
Is there any particular neighborhood you would advise renters on a budget to consider?
If you do have to pay a broker’s fee, how much can you negotiate?
What are the three essentials you’d advise any aspiring renter or buyer to keep in mind this summer when choosing an apartment?
When it comes to people and their pets, the obsession, the fascination, and, in some cases, utter fanaticism rivals that of parents and their children. Whether it’s in regard to Fluffy or Foo-Foo, pet-obsessive owners can easily fall into long conversations filled with talk of their canine’s recent bout with doggie depression, or the reasoning behind their feline’s preference of wet to dry food.
These suites all have magnificent custom bedding, toy chests filled with all kinds of stimulating toys, televisions, VCR's and special selections from our video library.”
he has a mixed-breed past. (But coming to terms with that identity might also spur a literary career.) 


Where would you personally shop for chic summer style, for instance in LA where you’ve recently been working?
And grooming tips?
As a stylist who divides his time between France, Britain, and America, how would you describe the overall style of each country?
And what style do you use the most in your work?
gardens left in the city. Whether you sit indoors or out, you can enjoy your favorite imported or domestic beer at a picnic table and do “cheers” with your friends long into the wee hours of the night.
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needs covered. For just 5 bucks, you can take a ride on the Wild Asia Monorail for an aerial glide around the zoo, to see the animals in their outdoor habitats and catch a breeze while you cross the water. And if that’s not enough, check out their indoor exhibit “World of Darkness” to see nocturnal animals from bats, to snakes, to two-toed sloths—because even if you can’t cool off in here, seeing these creatures peer at you through the darkness is enough to give you chills.
So where are you these days during the off season?
I always see hockey players wearing full-on suits, when they’re traveling or going into or out of the hockey stadiums/rinks. Do you have to wear them?
Being that you value your time and you have to wear either your uniform or a suit traveling… what do you like most about these jeans?
With all works priced between $100 and $10,000, this year’s
While one probably won’t land a true diamond in the rough (i.e., finding a signed Picasso in a junkyard), the fair features a number of steals waiting to be uncovered. Among some of the most noteworthy is photographer
Interested in learning more about how to turn your affordable art into an enviable collection? This coming weekend also welcomes two afternoon lectures (in conjunction with the fair) by the School of Visual Arts (SVA), bearing the respective subtitles of “Beginning and Developing Your Art Collection,” and “Collecting, Owning and Preserving Works on Paper.” And, for those interested in collecting art on a limited budget but aren’t NYC bound this week (or for whom one fair is not nearly enough), don’t fret: There’s always the New Collector’s Circle (NCC), an organization that brings together a wide range of art enthusiasts, introducing aspiring aficionados to members of certain galleries, corporate art collections, advisors, and art fairs.
In the immortal words of Charles Saatchi, “There are no rules about investment. Sharks can be good. Artist’s dung can be good. Oil on canvas can be good.” As the stories behind many past masterpieces will tell you, risk, in art, is often a good thing. Yes there are a few things to avoid – like, for instance, any installations with an inherent shelf life. But the key is, simply, to go with your gut.

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Rekindle the Romance Weekend at Napa’s
So, when psychoPEDIA got the chance to sit down with the neo-Renaissance Man in his Beverly Hills home and discuss Ratner’s utterly unique road to success, as well as he foray into reality TV thanks to Steven Spielberg, we were pretty pleased. In his own words:
Given your experience in film and photography, what in particular attracts you to fashion photography, and how does it relate to directing?
But, film to fashion, that’s a pretty drastic step. How did you get there?
In addition to directing, producing and photographing, you’ve recently added acting to your repertoire. It’s a pretty incredible range…
And you were a judge?
How much?
So, if you could direct any movie, what would it be?
Kind of like Williamsburg?
How would you describe the local music scene after the press’ intensive coverage of ‘Montreal music’ a few years back…
Let’s talk about Handsome Furs for a moment. First off, what’s the origin of the name?
What about when you’re looking for a more low-key night out?
What about a favorite record shop?
And what’s the first place you go when it finally gets warm?
Is biotin something that’s been used in the biz for a long time or more recently?
So what does your hair say about you?
Is there any style you wish would just curl up and die?
That’s exactly what various
According to the book, it reads a little like this: 10,000 bottle service at celebrity-run clubs; Paris Hilton and Nicole Richie scholarships for ‘body conscious’ wannabes ambitious to make something of themselves, or, in other words, “come to New York, dance to some house music, have some anal sex and get [their] picture in a few magazines.” There’s also the unforeseen issue of extreme age gaps - agile youths dating individuals older than their grandparents thanks to nano-technology’s allowance for much longer life spans. Not to mention, when people are living a good 150 years longer, a lot more are welcoming sex-change operations in order to try things “from the other side.” Oh yeah, and there’s a 100% divorce rate thanks in part to the fact that (as Tolstoy could have predicted) husbands are still screwing the nanny.




Acts not to miss include The New Pornographers, new electro-dance sensation Fujiya & Miyagi, Spoon, and experimental rockers Menomena.
And what is your dream about now, besides making Lovedrug the biggest band in the world?
Getting back to the music, what was it like to open for Hanson?
It seems like every year, someone new comes through and gets super big. Last year it was My Chemical Romance, now it’s Fall Out Boy. They all sound the same. Do people not notice this?
haven’t changed much. Wallace still takes heliriding trips around the world, yet now does it with her athletes, like Travis Rice, who, at present, is probably considered the best big mountain rider in the world. Let’s just put it this way, the chick jumps into helicopters, descends 10,000 feet above sea level and inks multimillion-dollar deals. Yeah, she’s bad-ass.
How long have you lived in Encinitas and why did you end up there of all places?
What's the quintessential "Encinitas Outing" like?