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Dealing with a Girlfriend Who Wants Too Much Sex

Dear PsychoDoc: I love sex just as much as the next guy, but my girlfriend seems to want it all the time. When I come home late from work, when she wakes up in the morning, when I’m playing Xbox – there’s just no escaping her! We’ve been together for five months and I still find her sexually attractive, but too much of a good thing is never good for anyone. I find myself becoming more and more detached from our sexual encounters. Sometimes I just lay there while she gets on top of me and does her thing! It’s weird, because she wasn’t like this when we first started dating. How can I tell her that she needs to slow down without hurting her feelings?
-Cordin ,26, Manchester-

Dear Oversexed and Exhausted: As men get older, they start to realize that women are, in fact, way hornier than men. So, as you get closer to 50, start to lose your hair and gradually slow down in the bedroom, you’ll find that your woman is turning into Sharon Stone in Basic Instinct. Although, if you look deeply into her eyes while she’s pouncing on you, underneath all the passion and sexual frustration, what you’ll see is someone looking for attention. And lots of it. You say you’re coming home late from work and she disturbs you while you’re playing Xbox, but have you ever thought that she may be throwing all this ass your way because that’s the only way she feels she can connect with you?

The solution is to do something that requires the two of you to get out of the house. Try and inject some romance, and an element of surprise into the relationship, like-– oh, we don’t know-– a weekend at a five-star resort in the Sonoran Desert? I guarantee that she’ll ease off on the sex a bit, because you’ll be ticking some of the boxes that have been left unchecked for so long.

Why do you think she wasn’t so fuck-happy when you first met? You were probably trying really hard to impress her by doing lots of cool stuff, so you were satisfying her emotionally and physically. But now you’ve gotten so complacent, that she’s using your penis as a substitute. I think your girl just wants to be reminded of why she fell for you in the first place.

PsychoDoc is written by Donald Crunk, the founder of the Styleslut creative collective. He is not a medically-trained doctor or shrink, but is a highly-trained professional in life. He can be reached at

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